Ah, you see, now you are closer - now you speak of respect, rather than fair or honest.
Sadly, respect is not always automatic.
Being young or old really has nothing to do with it IMO.
Speaking for myself, I often find unsolicited advice on "What is best for me" irritating and condescending. Whats it got to do with anyone else what I do as long as any harm I do is only to myself? Same with MYBB - whats it got to do with you how they run their forum? Anyway, I am actually annoyed with myself for even allowing myself to respond to these posts.......oh well. Carry on