Am I the wrong one here?

[ZiNgA BuRgA]

I don't terribly think that's too viable a reason.  Most open source programs I use, I don't care at all about the community.
The people who care are the ones engaged with the community (typically those seeking help).  This is perhaps only a small proportion of users, although many of these aren't really that suited to judging others.

Granted, the community could certainly use some improvement however.